While I believe that most of us, teachers and administrators, would echo how vital
classroom management is in facilitating child
development, I find this
interesting, as we have just finished our 37
th day of school, according to Kim. In saying this, I want to back up a bit to where Mr. and Mrs. Wong both write about "Positive Expectations."
Referring to page 61 and beyond, Wong discusses how powerful and beneficial it is to build relationships with both students and guardians (parents). For the teacher (and administrator), it may be as simple as complimenting the student's new haircut, etc (pg 61). Or the other things that I believe most of us do such as smiling, holding a door open, or saying, "good morning," "thank you," and "please."
Putting aside classroom management, something I believe that is just as vital, if not more, is the CONNECTIONS with our students, parents, and administrators. As Wong says on page 68, "Students, parents, teachers, everyone thrives on connections." Boiling things down, I think we will see that having great connections with our students is a stepping stone to anything, including classroom management.
Interesting enough, as I have experienced
this year, sometimes saying, "please," "thank you," or giving smiles will not be sufficient to obtaining good classroom management. In my experience, obtaining good classroom management goes beyond these things mentioned earlier that is, knowing each child inside and out, to have good classroom management and in turn, a successful classroom.
Sure preparation, class procedures, consistency, and more are all attributes of a successful classroom, but I believe the connections (relationships) is not to be underestimated. Not only is
connections to be overlooked, but it is something that we have to work for and requires time. If the shortcut to managing a child was to say, "please" 10 or 20 times, I would have certainly considered it at times, but ultimately that is often not how the world works. Moreover, individuality would be hindered and conformity would be on the rise. As we all know, every child is special and unique from one another. What better of a way to experience this than to engage in the child's life while peeling away every petal to their heart?