I was soon reminded about this concept mentioned above when I started to write down the kids names on the board during lunchtime when I felt they have listened to my instructions and complied to my expectations. Not surprisingly, I witnessed kids whispering to their neighbor to lower his/her voice so that their name could be on the board soon after I jotted down a name at a time. Sooner than later, I was able to have all the kids comply to my expectations without a word having been said. To maintain this environment, I decided to place a check mark or erase the name when the child continued to follow my expectation or vice versa.
Ultimately, I found this to be a reminder of how much kids take pride in their name. In doing this method, it became difficult for the child to test me since there were no signs of a power struggle to begin with. There were fifteen other classmates who were "implementing" the same expectations, as I had asked for.